Meeting New People:)
minichuuy asked: So, I will admit..I don’t have a lot of friends, most of the friends that I have I’ve known for a really long time and I just have no idea how to make new ones, or talk to anyone. Especially at raves, I know everyone is friendly, but I still get really shy and don’t want to stray away from the people I went to the rave with. Any tips? <3 :X
I had this problem the first rave I went to sober. Honestly, my usual solution was just to roll. That’s not very healthy.
If you want an easy way to get over this, but don’t want to roll yourself, find a rolling kid ^-^ Theyre really easy to talk to, especially if you initiate conversation. They’ll probably introduce you to all of their friends and everyone they met that night as well.
You can also simply be honest. Let you heart out. No, not in that, kum-bi-yah way - if you see something cool about someone, tell them. Think of it like a tumblr comment on a picture youre reblog. “Wow i love your hair!” “Your tutu is adorable!” “Oh my goodness - your kandi is amazing - i LOVE pikachu!” Ravers are pretty cool, and out there, so its easy to find something you like about them. The big thing is just getting over the first hump, taking that leap. But do it. Smile and compliment people. it will definitely get a conversation going :)
If these tips didn’t help you, or didn’t help you enough PLEASE LET ME KNOW! I am constantly trying to make my page better and more helpful, and I won’t be upset by some constructive criticism. It only helps me to help you guys more <3
Meeting New People:)
minichuuy asked: So, I will admit..I don’t have a lot of friends, most of the friends that I have I’ve known for a really long time and I just have no idea how to make new ones, or talk to anyone. Especially at raves, I know everyone is friendly, but I still get really shy and don’t want to stray away from the people I went to the rave with. Any tips? <3 :X
I had this problem the first rave I went to sober. Honestly, my usual solution was just to roll. That’s not very healthy.
If you want an easy way to get over this, but don’t want to roll yourself, find a rolling kid ^-^ Theyre really easy to talk to, especially if you initiate conversation. They’ll probably introduce you to all of their friends and everyone they met that night as well.
You can also simply be honest. Let you heart out. No, not in that, kum-bi-yah way - if you see something cool about someone, tell them. Think of it like a tumblr comment on a picture youre reblog. “Wow i love your hair!” “Your tutu is adorable!” “Oh my goodness - your kandi is amazing - i LOVE pikachu!” Ravers are pretty cool, and out there, so its easy to find something you like about them. The big thing is just getting over the first hump, taking that leap. But do it. Smile and compliment people. it will definitely get a conversation going :)
If these tips didn’t help you, or didn’t help you enough PLEASE LET ME KNOW! I am constantly trying to make my page better and more helpful, and I won’t be upset by some constructive criticism. It only helps me to help you guys more <3
